Christmas can often be a time when families notice changes in their elderly relatives that they may not have recognised before.
From being unsteady on their feet, forgetfulness, eating less to increased tiredness, while these changes often aren't sudden, spending an extended amount of time together over the festive period can make these kinds of changes more visible to family members.
Gloucestershire charity, Lilian Faithfull Care, says that Christmas and other major family gatherings are consistently cited as one of the most common points where families first share, or act on, their concerns about their loved ones.
It's also frequently when families first begin to seriously consider additional care for their elderly relatives.
But while concerns may become apparent at this time of year, it's important to notice and discuss them, rather than making rushed or immediate decisions – and knowing where to turn for trusted support is also important.
Aiming to help families feel informed, reassured and supported – not pressured – when considering additional support for their loved ones, Lilian Faithfull Care is sharing the common signs that additional support is needed; advice on how to begin open conversations with family; what to look for when visiting a care home; and why relationships, culture and continuity of care matter as much as facilities, in a new video.
For families who find themselves having these kinds of concerns after spending time together over the festive season, the charity is keen to remind them that they are not alone, with many families experiencing the same realisation at this time of year.
Netty Wade, customer relationship manager at Lilian Faithfull Care, said: 'Families often tell us, 'We hadn’t realised how much things had changed until we spent proper time together.''
Lilian Faithfull Care is inviting families with any concerns to reach out to ask questions, check any signs they've noticed, or explore what support may look like for their loved ones, with no obligation and no pressure.
With residential and nursing care homes, specialist dementia facilities and more informal adult day centres, like its Secret Garden community hub, the charity can provide expert information on the variety of options available.
Lilian Faithfull Care also offers a Home for Life pledge, meaning that residents will never be asked to leave one of its homes due to financial reasons, giving families the flexibility and reassurance they need that care can adapt and change along with their loves one's needs.
To make an enquiry for a chat, or a visit to one of Lilian Faithfull's care homes or day hubs, visit lilianfaithfull.co.uk/care-enquiry, or call Netty on 01242 303220.
